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When Wealth Changes Hands

Identity Shapes the Outcome

Designing high-stakes financial decisions in divorce, inheritance, and complex wealth transitions.

BEGIN AGAIN
THE BOOK
THE ASSESSMENT
THE masterclass
A quiet recognition

What most women navigating change don’t say out loud

You can be intelligent, successful, and still feel unsteady when the money suddenly becomes your responsibility. It’s not incompetence.
It’s the weight of irreversible decisions.
  • What This Often Feels Like

The rules changed

The financial dynamic you were used to is gone. Now you’re expected to understand everything…immediately.

The pressure is constant

Attorneys, advisors, family members all have opinions. But you’re the one who has to live with the outcome.

You don’t want regret

You get one shot at a divorce settlement.
You get one first move after an inheritance.
You don’t want to look back five years from now and wish you had slowed down.

Wealth isn’t just about money.

Wealth is control.
Wealth is leverage.
Wealth is the ability to choose your future without regret.

During financial transitions, money isn’t just math.
It’s identity.
It’s power.
It’s security.
It’s the story you’ll live with for the next 20 years.

Most women in transition don’t struggle with money or finances because they lack intelligence.

They struggle because the decisions are permanent and the emotional pressure is high.

This work is about protecting your judgment when it matters most.

Whole Woman Wealth

This isn’t about empowerment.
It’s about making sure you don’t choose something you regret.

where to begin

There isn’t one right way to start.
There’s only the place that feels right for you.

Read the Story

Begin with a narrative exploration of identity, wealth, and self-trust and see yourself reflected along the way.

EXPLORE THE BOOK

Gain Clarity

A private, reflective assessment to help you understand what’s asking for your attention right now.

TAKE THE ASSESSMENT

Return to Self

A guided experience for women navigating transition and redefining their relationship with wealth.

JOIn THE masterclass

This Perspective Was Earned Inside Wealth Strategy.

For more than two decades, I worked inside institutional wealth management, advising families with significant assets and collaborating with the legal and financial professionals shaping complex wealth strategies.

I’ve seen how major decisions are evaluated.
How settlements are structured.
How long-term plans are built across advisors, bankers, attorneys, and tax professionals.

I understand how the room works.

Today, I bring that institutional perspective directly to women navigating high-stakes financial transitions so nothing is agreed to without clarity.

I help women steady themselves before they sign something they can’t undo.

You don’t have to rush this.

You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You don’t need to make a decision today.
If something here resonated, trust that.
That’s often how clarity begins.
When you’re ready, there are gentle ways to continue the conversation.

BEGIN WHERE YOU ARE

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@ajbishopandrews

ajbishopandrews

Amazon #1 Best-Selling Author
Redefining wealth as freedom, power and self trust
Speaker + Strategist
⬇️ Begin Again

Today is my birthday. And this year feels differen Today is my birthday.
And this year feels different.

I woke up anxious at 11:55 last night. Perimenopause sleep roulette. When I’m tired and unguarded, my mind starts taking inventory.

Everything I thought I’d have done by 45.
Everything I assumed I’d have figured out by now.

I live with GAD (generalized anxiety disorder), and in moments like that, rumination feels less like thinking and more like being pulled under.

This year has been heavy.
My mom’s dementia.
Writing a book that matters deeply to me.
Carrying responsibility from every direction.

What I’m seeing clearly is how much of my life has been built around being the strong one. The prepared one. The decision maker. The person who makes sure everyone else is okay.

And how often that meant putting myself last.

Over the past year, learning how my energy actually works has changed everything. Not in a dramatic way. In a practical one. I’ve stopped solving problems that aren’t mine. I’ve put responsibility back where it belongs. I’ve created distance from relationships that don’t give back, even some close ones.

I’m still learning how to rest.
Still learning how not to default to fierce independence.
Still learning that being supported requires letting myself be seen.

I don’t have it all figured out.
But for the first time in a long time, I feel supported.

This year isn’t about doing more.
It’s about taking better care of myself.
Being more honest.
More rested.
More willing to receive.

And today, that feels like enough.
It’s never too late to Begin Again. It’s never too late to Begin Again.
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Today is my "official" book launch day. When we fi Today is my "official" book launch day.
When we first started planning, my team and I looked at all the “normal” markers of success.
Billboards in Times Square.
A launch party in LA.
All the visible ways you show the world something counts.
And then I realized something.
What I actually wanted was time.
Time to soak it in, literally and figuratively.
So today, I walked my dog.
I did a midday reflection.
I spent the afternoon preparing for the college course I teach (and love).
And I reached out to close friends and family to thank them for supporting me and asked them to pass the book along to a woman who might resonate.
All the things that make me a woman, not a version of success meant to be seen.
So many women think success has to be loud and out there to matter.
This chapter asked me to honor what my own design craves instead.
Whether Rich Like Her becomes an international bestseller or reaches a thousand women, something still matters deeply to me.
I crossed something off my bucket list.
I kept a promise to myself.
And I stepped into my next chapter in my own way of being.
I’m sharing this for the women who are looking for a different kind of meaning.
You’re not doing it wrong.
You’re just doing it differently.
Most high-functioning women think they’re “behind” Most high-functioning women think they’re “behind” when something stops fitting.

I’ve watched this happen over and over. Including in my own life. 

They’re not behind. 
They’re just paying attention earlier than most.
If Rich Like Her stirred something in you, don’t s If Rich Like Her stirred something in you, don’t scroll past that.

I’m serious.
Pause for a second.

You don’t need to figure it out.
You don’t need to explain it.
You definitely don’t need to turn it into a whole thing.

Just notice it.

Sit with what landed.
Call one woman you trust.
Write the sentence you keep editing in your head.

That’s it.
That’s how clarity starts.

And if you want help staying with that feeling instead of stuffing it down, I’m hosting Begin Again, a simple, guided, three-day reflection starting January 6.

No fixing.
No rushing.

You don’t have to do everything.
One step is enough.
I said I’d share what happened. Rich Like Her is I said I’d share what happened.

Rich Like Her is now #1 in six Amazon categories… before launch.

This milestone is the result of every rewrite, every almost-quit, and every conversation that reminded me women’s stories matter. 

Writing it changed me first. 

This moment is just proof of what happens when we keep going.

Thank you for every pre-order, every share, every “you need this.” 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

That’s how movements start. Not with hype. With resonance.

And to my book team — none of this happens alone.
Ashley Mansour
Melody Delgado
Tory Woodruff
Kayla Nicholson
Colleen Hazelwood

We did this. Together.
Now the real work begins.
How is it already December 31? 2025 held some of How is it already December 31?

2025 held some of the highest highs and the hardest lows I’ve experienced in my 44 years. Both stretched me. Both shaped me. I’m grateful to still be here — healthy, happy, and carrying a full heart.

As we close the year, I’m rooting for us all to claim a prosperous 2026. Set your intentions. Back them with action. Make them real.
I didn’t choose this mission. It chose me the day I didn’t choose this mission.

It chose me the day my mother was taken advantage of.

Not by the market. By people who knew she didn’t know enough to defend herself.

That’s when I learned:
Wealth without self-trust is a setup.

And too many women are told to “be grateful” when they should be taught to be prepared.

This is why I wrote Rich Like Her.
This is where the story begins.

Kindle is 99¢ this week if it’s for you.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G61945CB

Share this if it stirs something.
More women deserve to know.

#authorjourney #womenintransition #womenandmoney
Tomorrow, Rich Like Her goes live… kinda!! 😂 I cr Tomorrow, Rich Like Her goes live… kinda!! 😂

I created a one-week prelaunch window, priced at $.99 on purpose… so more women could read it before we step into 2026 and start asking different questions about money and meaning.

If this conversation has ever resonated… tomorrow is the moment. All other versions of the book (audio, paperback and hardcover) are available on official launch day, January 6, 2026. ❤️
I didn’t write this book in perfect conditions. I I didn’t write this book in perfect conditions.
I wrote it in the messy middle of my life...

I kept asking myself the same questions so many women ask quietly:

❔Why do we stop trusting ourselves?
❔Why do we doubt what we already know?
❔Why do we shrink our own power when we’re the ones carrying everything?

Rich Like Her became the map I needed. And I wrote it for every woman navigating a transition she didn’t choose, every woman rebuilding her confidence,
every woman ready to rise on her own terms.

If you feel the pull…
Join the waitlist for early access.

Waitlist link in bio.
You’ve been conditioned to disappear in plain sigh You’ve been conditioned to disappear in plain sight.

To move fast.
Stay agreeable.
Hold everything together.
Blend into the noise.
Never take up too much space.
Keep going, even when you’re empty.

But disappearing isn’t strength.
It’s survival.

If someone came to mind while you were reading this,
share it with her.

Women who are holding so much rarely say it out loud
but they always feel seen when someone names the truth.
Two months from today, Rich Like Her will be out i Two months from today, Rich Like Her will be out in the world.

I’ve carried these words in my heart for years.
But they didn’t find their way to the page until life slowed me down.

When my mom’s health began to decline and dementia started taking pieces of her, I found myself in stillness for the first time in decades.
And in that stillness, the words came.

They came as memories, lessons, and truths about what it really means to be wealthy as a woman.

Rich Like Her isn’t just a book about money.
It’s about what happens when success looks perfect on the outside but no longer feels true on the inside.
It’s about remembering yourself again.

Writing it has been both healing and humbling.
And as I step into this next chapter, I’m so grateful for the women who’ve inspired it and for my mother, who unknowingly gave me the space to write it.

If you believe wealth should feel as good as it looks, I’d love your support.
💛 Sign up for early access, the link is in my bio. 

#RichLikeHer #WomenAndWealth #FeminineLeadership #WealthWithMeaning #AuthorJourney #WomenInTransition
The biggest green flag after divorce? You can feel The biggest green flag after divorce? You can feel the shift because you stop performing and starts living it. What was the moment you knew you were back?
Happy Labor Day! 😂 Happy Labor Day! 😂
Burnout and golden handcuffs are real. Here’s how Burnout and golden handcuffs are real. Here’s how I advise women who are looking to make a career shift.
Here’s the number one question I get asked about w Here’s the number one question I get asked about wealth right now, and it’s not what you think!
Fear says “wait until it’s perfect.” Fantasy says Fear says “wait until it’s perfect.”

Fantasy says “this hack will make you rich overnight.”

Both are lies. Both are expensive.
Women don’t fall behind because we make bad choices.

We fall behind because we don’t make choices at all.

It’s time to stop scrolling, stop stalling, and start rewriting the script.

Because when women do that? Women Own Wealth.

💥 Drop this emoji if you’re done with fear and fantasy.
You’re not bad with money. You’re running on a scr You’re not bad with money. You’re running on a script you didn’t choose.

The good news? Scripts can be rewritten.

In my 20 years in wealth management, I’ve seen these 4 come up again and again:
1. Money is bad.
2 More money will fix everything.
3. I’ll never have enough.
4. I don’t deserve money.
They feel true because you’ve carried them for so long… but they’re not reality. Once you see them, you can rewrite them.

And when women rewrite the script, Women Own Wealth.

👉 Which one feels most like you? Drop it below and save this for the reminder.
Women don’t stay quiet about wealth because they d Women don’t stay quiet about wealth because they don’t care.

They stay quiet because:
1️⃣ Advice doesn’t fit.
2️⃣ Fear of the “wrong” move.
3️⃣ Double standards.

Silence has a cost. The shift?
👉 Stop asking “What if I get it wrong?”
👉 Start asking “What will it cost me if I do nothing?”
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